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		<title>Neal Campbell: A year too late.</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Okay, I realize the irony by posting this months after his apology but I have something to say. Words cannot explain how I feel about Neal Campbell's late, rushed, and barely emotional apology. I have many reasons for saying those things because it comes a year after he allegedly logged on to Cali's Twitter account and "impersonating" her, posting the update which caused Leo to ban her from TWiT.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Okay, I realize the irony by posting this months after his apology but I have something to say. Words cannot explain how I feel about <a title="A Public Apology to My Wife- Neal Campbell | This is my blog." href="http://www.nealcampbell.com/2010/02/01/a-public-apology-to-my-wife/">Neal Campbell&#8217;s late, rushed, and barely emotional apology</a>. I have many reasons for saying those things because it comes a <em><strong>year</strong></em> after he allegedly logged on to Cali&#8217;s Twitter account and <em>&#8220;impersonated&#8221;</em> her, posting the update which caused Leo to ban her from TWiT. This is just like the mystery about &#8220;Who Shot J.R.?&#8221; on that show Dallas, except we had to wait an entire year and the guy who fessed up; he&#8217;s not the one who J.R. <em><strong>would not </strong></em>send to jail. Now since I&#8217;m hosted by a hosting company which does not explicitly allow swear words of any kind, I will have to try to let out my anger about this while avoiding anything that might cause my hosting company to kick me out the door. Now without further to do. Here are the words he says in his post and my replies to his words.</p>
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<p style="text-align: center;"><em>&#8220;Since we started GeekBrief.TV, I’ve studied media successes to learn techniques for growing an audience and keeping them interested. Publicly writing something controversial is usually a very good thing to do. You don’t loose as many people as seems logical because people want to stick around to see what you’ll do or say next.&#8221; -Neal Campbell</em></p>
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<p>Really&#8230; controversy&#8230; I guess it works for the people who actually know what they are talking about, people who usually have a good theory that will cause controversy because it clashes with the common watered-down stuff that the people have heard. Also people don&#8217;t stick around due to the controversy, they stick around because they light what the guy is saying and they want to hear more. I suspect this is the guy who used to watch &#8220;Rikki Lake&#8221; and &#8220;Jerry Springer&#8221; because they&#8217;re<em> &#8220;controversial.&#8221;</em>; I suspect he stopped this because he wanted to look more &#8220;smart&#8221; than he really is.</p>
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<p style="text-align: center;"><em>&#8220;When Cali found out what I did, it obviously it made her angry.  To her, politics is private and divisive. She doesn’t enjoy it in the least. I apologized, but also argued my case about the benefits of the controversy. We had recently had dinner with John C. Dvorak and he explained how he has used controversy in his long career as a tech writer to keep people paying attention. I thought Cali bought-in to the idea of creating controversy, but I was wrong.&#8221; -Neal Campbell</em></p>
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<p>Well you&#8217;ve been married to her for like, I don&#8217;t know, <em><strong>11 YEARS!!!</strong></em> You should know Cali at the time you impersonated her and posted that tweet about global warming. Not only does it show that you do not respect your wife&#8217;s wishes, it also shows that you&#8217;re 100% intent on controlling her career. Here&#8217;s what I think Neal Campbell was thinking in his head.</p>
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<p style="text-align: center;"><em>&#8220;Hmmm&#8230; If I impersonate Cali Lewis and if I post a controversial tweet then it will make my wife more famous! And it will also make me &#8220;Neal Campbell&#8221;, recognizable as the husband of a famous celebrity!&#8221; -The Thoughts of Neal Campbell</em></p>
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<p>You seriously couldn&#8217;t consult Cali before you did this? Maybe she would do it, maybe she would say not; the point is, you impersonated her without consent for personal gain. And when you realized that Leo banned her from TWiT, then you realized you were wrong; because with that, your business opportunities started to go down the drain.</p>
<blockquote><p><em>&#8220;She was deeply hurt by what I did. She is the kindest person in the world and she didn’t want to embarrass me. She’s lived with letting everyone believe it came from her because of our relationship.&#8221;-Neal Campbell</em></p></blockquote>
<p>This is what also angers me. You hurt her, you posted that tweet and after all of that, she defended you&#8230; Woman should not have to defend Men from their mistakes; if Men never experiences the consequences brought on by their mistakes then they should not deserve to be called Men, just cowards. Worst of all; instead of apologizing for what you have done, you have instead let Cali take the blame. Not once did she feel obligated to say that it was you who did it; she let many business opportunities slip and it&#8217;s all because of you.</p>
<blockquote style="text-align: center;"><p><em>&#8220;The only way I can make it right is to publicly apologize.  A private apology is utterly insufficient because what I did pushed her into a public, political battle she didn’t want to fight. She lost friends and business opportunities because of what I did. I hope this blog post will mend some of those relationships. I also want to apologize to friends of GeekBrief.TV and followers of Cali’s tweets. The controversy experiment just wasn’t worth it, especially without her participation. I’m sorry.&#8221; -Neal Campbell</em></p></blockquote>
<p>You know what&#8217;s even more insufficient, not apologizing at all&#8230; and now you apologize for placing her in a battle she didn&#8217;t want to fight in the first place. You know what, you&#8217;re not sorry; you did this <em>&#8220;experiment&#8221;</em> without consulting her, you did this because you thought this would help her career, but mainly you did this entirely for yourself. What surprised me is that Leo Laporte posted the first comment, and after reading that comment I found some words of text which really proves that you&#8217;re a shallow person. Note the highlighted words around a big red circle.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://www.taylorkarras.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/06/threewords.jpg"><img class="size-full wp-image-65 aligncenter" title="threewords" src="http://www.taylorkarras.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/06/threewords.jpg" alt="" width="555" height="161" /></a></p>
<p style="text-align: left;">According to the highlighted text, he apologized <em><strong>way back then. </strong></em>Which means that Leo had at least enough emotion to contact Cali and apologize to her. You, you waited a year after the incident you caused and then you posted your &#8220;public apology&#8221;. While some people may hate Leo for his views on Global Warming and his views on the then 2008 presidential campaign. He is at least more human and less shallow then you will ever be in your lifetime. The conclusion, well it&#8217;s obvious. <a title="Cali Lewis  &amp;raquo; Blog Archive   &amp;raquo; An Important Change in My Life" href="http://calilewis.me/change">Cali divorces you</a>; seriously. In my personal opinion, she does not deserve scum like you. While you guys used to love each other back then, I think it&#8217;s different now. When Cali became a micro-celebrity, it made you think <em>&#8220;I&#8217;m going to make her into a celebrity, and then I shall bask in the fame and move to Hollywood as the husband of a celebrity.&#8221;</em> If you were truly in love with her then you should not let the ideas of fame and success affect your head. Continuing on, it&#8217;s a &#8220;well known fact&#8221; that he produces the show&#8230; I&#8217;m wondering, isn&#8217;t this the reason why the show looks unprofessional.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">I remember a time when I found a music video for Geoff Smith&#8217;s &#8220;Hello, Hello&#8221; and it was just, horrible. During the duration of the song, he focused on Cali buying the iPhone. While I do admit that the song was good, he could of done a few things; adjust the contrast of the video, shot it at a slower framerate and at least took the effort to make it a proper music video. This is the same for the video podcast itself; I read around the web that &#8220;GeekBrief.TV&#8221; has a certain &#8220;professional&#8221; element to it, I found myself to be more wrong. No offense to Cali Lewis on the more recent episodes but the ones she did with her husband in 2009 are in my opinion campy, unprofessional, cheap-looking and horrible. Not once did the guys even consider getting the lighting right, the obvious production errors fixed up or even the presentation right. Now while I&#8217;m mainly interested in the news when I&#8217;m looking at a podcast, I consider the presentation to be the most important thing I look for. Whether the host is likable, relatable or knowledgeable, and whether it will make me want to come back for more. I should not have to be focusing on obvious errors such as the ones found in your special you produced on &#8220;Leo Laporte&#8221;.</p>
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<p style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://www.taylorkarras.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/06/superproductioninaction.jpg"><img class="size-full wp-image-65 aligncenter" title="Super Production in Action" src="http://www.taylorkarras.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/06/superproductioninaction-300x168.jpg" alt="" width="462" height="256" /></a></p>
<p style="text-align: left;">I just loved how you overlayed a title over another title, and I absolutely loved how you did not take more then <strong>1</strong> camera into the cottage. I swear that as I watched the videos you produced, I saw Leo suddenly get less clear and muddy throughout the video. I don&#8217;t know, you did not have the skill to have a camera directly facing Leo? Superproducer my bottom, you are the tech version of Solar, a guy who claims to care about her only to use and abuse Guru for his own personal gain; and Guru was lead to believe that there was nothing he could do to stop him, he was even forced to perform on stage despite Guru&#8217;s health, all for his own benefit. And the quality of the product, there was no effort put into the product; it was all rushed just to cash in. Sure the music&#8217;s good but the product feels like there hasn&#8217;t been any care put into it.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">Also, his political views aren&#8217;t really the ones anybody political would recommend. Sure he&#8217;s against Obama but for one reason, what he&#8217;s going to do to his wallet. Not universal healthcare, not the fact that he isn&#8217;t really all that different from George W. Bush, but money. In this world, the rich control everything while the poor have to survive off of scraps. The world loves people who can make money in an economy like this and continue to make money, they are the ones who will survive into the future because they can afford all of the life extension technology. If his political views consist of only what he&#8217;s trying to do to his wallet then that&#8217;s pretty shallow in my book. I mean just because banks aren&#8217;t accepting mortgage offers like they used to after George W. Bush ruined the economy, that is no reason why you should start going all political. I mean just because they denied you for the mortgage (which could be for many reasons; bad credit score, history of underpayments, the fact that they think you will not pay it back in full) does not mean that the world is going to end, in fact it should of made you do things like get more sponsors for your tour or at least rent the damn bus; not go all political just because someone denied your mortgage application.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">And closing out my argument is how he tried to save his marriage. Apparently <a title="Divorce, Healing and Feeling Alone- Neal Campbell | This is my blog." href="http://www.nealcampbell.com/2010/05/06/divorce-healing-alone/">he has gone to 2 support groups</a> because Christians don&#8217;t believe in psychology. My advice; they should of just saw a psychologist to at least try to resolve their issues instead of a support group. Which leads me to my next issue; he should of just admitted her love for her instead of trying to find out what&#8217;s wrong and fixing it. You couldn&#8217;t of just walked up to Cali Lewis and say <em>&#8220;I love you with all my heart, I know that I shouldn&#8217;t of placed you into a battle based on a hunch, but everybody learns from mistakes and we, we could overcome any mistakes if we stick together.&#8221;</em> He couldn&#8217;t even do that? I thought you were a Christian&#8230; Which Christian represses their feelings of love for trying to find out what&#8217;s wrong with the marriage. Additionally, he even claims that he realizes that he has been reborn and now realizes that the marriage he had was magical&#8230; During the 11 years he was married to her, did you ever think that you think the marriage was magical? I guess he doesn&#8217;t know what he got until it got up and walked away from her, now he&#8217;s talking about how he&#8217;s reborn, how he wants his wife back and spiritual BS which I just plain don&#8217;t believe in (sorry believers of religion.). Neal, the day you started becoming a bad husband was when in my opinion, you started to use her for your own personal gain and when you started to subconsciously think you were bigger than god. Neal Campbell you are a shallow, ignorant, pathetic piece of human flesh and you should of never gone onto her Twitter in the first place and posted that message in the first place, and that is why you fail.</p>
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